Monday, December 7, 2009
SCSM 2009 - 6 December
Sunday, November 22, 2009
Sunday Outing
Friday, November 13, 2009
Kallang Leisure Park
Friday, October 30, 2009
人生--仇人與恩人
給上班族分享!!
很有意思的管理故事:仇人與恩人
大學剛畢業的時候,某電視公司請我去主持個特別節目,
那節目的導播看我文章不錯,又要我兼編劇。
可是當節目做完,領酬勞的時候,
導播不但不給我編劇費,
還扣我一半的主持費。
他把收據交給我說:
『你簽收一千六,但我只能給你八百,因為節目透支了。』
我當時沒吭聲,照簽了,心想【君子報仇,十年不晚。】
後來那導播又找我,我還 【照樣】幫他做了幾次。
最後一次,他沒扣我錢,變得對我很客氣,
因為那時我被電視公司的新聞部看上,
一下子成為了電視記者兼新聞主播。
我們後來常在公司遇到,他每次笑得都有點尷尬。
我曾經想去告他一狀,可是正如高中那位同學所說,
沒有他我能有今天嗎?
如果我當初不忍下一口氣,又能繼續獲得主持的機會嗎?
機會是他給的,他是我的貴人,他已經知錯,我何必去報復呢?
! ;
後來我到了美國留學。
有一天,一位已經就業的同學對我抱怨他的美國老闆【吃】他,
不但給他很少的薪水,而且故意拖延他的綠卡 (美國居留權)申請
我當時對他說: 『這麼壞的老闆,不做也罷。
總要多學一點,再跳槽,所以你要偷偷學。』
他聽了我的話,不但每天加班,留下來背那些商業文書的寫法。
甚至連怎麼修! 理影印機,都跟在工人旁邊記筆記,
以便有一天自己出去創業,能夠省點修理費。
隔了半年,我問他是不是打算跳槽了?
他居然一笑:! 『不用!我的老闆現在對我刮目相看,又升官,
而且綠卡也馬上下來了,老闆? 棪搷甯陘偵罊A度一百八十度轉變
變得那麼積極呢?』
他心裏的不平不見了,他作了 『報復』,只是換了一種方法,
而且他自我檢討,當年其實是他自己不努力。
大概前五年吧!
我遇到個有意思的事。
一位老友突然猛學算命,由生辰八字、紫薇斗數、姓名學到占星術,
沒一樣不研究。
他學算命,當然不是覺得算命靈驗,而是想證明算命是騙人的東西。
原因是有一位非常著名的大師為他算命,算他活不到四十七,
他發誓,非打爛那大師的招牌不可。
!
你猜怎樣?
他愈學愈怕,因為他發現自己算自己,也確實活不長。
這時候,他改了,他跑去做慈善,說:
『反正活不久了,好好運用剩下的歲月,做點有意義的事。』
他很積極地投入,人人都說他變了,
由一個焦躁勢利的小人,變成敦厚慈愛的君子。
不知不覺,他過了四十七、過了四十八,而今已經五十三,
紅光滿面、生氣勃勃,比誰都活利健康。
「你可以去砸那大師的招牌了!」 我? 幸惶扉_他玩笑。
他眼一亮,回問我:『為什麼?』
又笑笑:『要不是那人警告我,照我以前的個性,
確實四十七歲非犯心臟病不可,他沒有不準啊!』
各位年輕朋友!
你喜歡逞強鬥狠嗎?
你總是心有不平嗎?
你有【此仇不報非君子】的憤恨嗎?
一點心得
你要知道,【敵人、仇人】 …
都可以【激發】你的 【潛能】,成為你的【貴人】。
你也要知道,許多怨仇、不平,其實問題都在你自己。
你更要知道,這世間最好的 『報復』,就是運用那股不平之氣,
使自己邁向成功,以那成功和【成功之後的胸懷】,
對待你當年的敵人,且把敵人變成朋友。
當『冤冤相報何時了』的 【雙贏】,
能成為【相逢 的【雙贏】。
不是人生最大的成功嗎?
給懂〝珍惜〞的人
1. 遇到你真的愛的人時…要努力爭取和他相伴一生的機會…!
因為當他離去時…一切都來不及了……!
2. 遇到可相信的朋友時…要好好和他相處下去……
因為在人的一生中…可遇到知己真的不易
3. 遇到人生中的貴人時…要記得好好感激…
因為他是你人生的轉折點…!
4. 遇到曾經愛過的人…記得微笑向他感激…
因為他是讓你更懂愛的人…!
5. 遇到曾經恨過的人時… 要微笑向他打招呼…
因為他讓你更加堅強…!
6. 遇到曾經背叛你的人時…要跟他好好聊一聊…
因為若不是他……今天你不會? ��@世界…!
7.. 遇到曾經偷偷喜歡的人時…要祝他幸福唷…!
因為你喜歡他時…不是希望他幸福快樂嗎?
8. 遇到匆匆離開你人生的人時…要謝謝他走過你的人生…
因為他是你精采回憶的一部分…!
9. 遇到曾經和你有誤會的人時…要趁現在解清誤會…
因為你可能只有這一次機會解釋清楚…!
10.遇到現在和相伴一生的人…要百分百感謝他愛你…
因為你們現在都得到幸福和真愛…
Sunday, October 25, 2009
Eat, eat & eat



Friday, October 23, 2009
Bicycle
Thursday, October 15, 2009
Saturday, October 10, 2009
A Relaxing Saturday
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Xuan
Friday, September 25, 2009
Cardio exercise cum Formula 1
Tuesday, September 22, 2009
Halong Bay
Monday, September 14, 2009
Niece, mum & I
Monday, September 7, 2009
A Birthday Surprise

Tuesday, August 25, 2009
Gathering with colleagues
Friday, August 7, 2009
How to Dance in the Rain
While taking care of his wound, I asked him if he had another doctor's appointment this morning, as he was in such a hurry.
The gentleman told me no, that he needed to go to the nursing home to eat breakfast with his wife. I inquired as to her health.
He told me that she had been there for a while and that she was a victim of Alzheimer's Disease. As we talked, I asked if she would be upset if he was a bit late.
He replied that she no longer knew who he was, that she had not recognized him in five years now. I was surprised, and asked him, 'And you still go every morning, even though she doesn't know who you are?'
He smiled as he patted my hand and said, 'She doesn't know me,
but I still know who she is.'
I had to hold back tears as he left, I had goose bumps on my arm, and thought,
'That is the kind of love I want in my life.'
True love is neither physical, nor romantic.
True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.
With all the jokes and fun that are in e-mails, sometimes there is one that comes along that has an important message. This one I thought I could share with you.
The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything;
they just make the best
of everything they have.
but how to dance in the rain.
Wednesday, August 5, 2009
Minister's National Day Award

Monday, August 3, 2009
Jacob Ballas Children's Garden
Friday, July 17, 2009
Useful Household Tips
Keep the skin of cucumbers near the place or ant hole.
To get pure and clean ice:
Boil water first before freezing.
To make the mirror shine:
Clean with spirit
To remove chewing gum from clothes:
Keep the cloth in the freezer for an hour.
To whiten white clothes:
Soak white clothes in hot water with a slice of lemon for 10 minutes 10..
To give a shine to hair:
Add one teaspoon of vinegar to hair, then wash hair.
To get maximum juice out of lemons:
Soak lemons in hot water for one hour, and then juice them.
To avoid smell of cabbage while cooking:
Keep a piece of bread on the cabbage in the vessel while cooking.
To rid the smell of fish from your hands:
Wash your hands with a little apple vinegar.
To avoid tears while cutting onions:
Chew gum.
To boil potatoes quickly:
Skin one potato from one side only before boiling.
To boil eggs quickly:
Add salt to the water and boil.
To check freshness of fish:
Put it in a bowl of cold water. If the fish floats, its fresh.
To check freshness of eggs:
Put the egg in water. If it becomes horizontal, its fresh. If it becomes slanting, its 3-4 days old. If it becomes vertical, its 10 days old. If it floats, its stale.
To remove ink from clothes:
Put toothpaste on the ink spots generously and let it dry completely, then wash.
To skin sweet potatoes quickly:
Soak in cold water immediately after boiling..
To get rid of mice or rats:
Sprinkle black pepper in places where you find mice or rats. They will run away.
To get rid of mosquitoes at night:
Keep leaves of mint near your bed or pillows and in around the room.
Tuesday, July 7, 2009
My first swimsuits
Monday, July 6, 2009
SELLING COMB TO THE BUDDIST MONK
The company ADVERTISED the vacancy in the newspaper. They are so many peoples turned up for the interview everyday....accumulated to almost a hundred peoples in just few days.
The Company now having the problem to choose the right candidate for this position. So, The Company interviewer had set A Difficult Task to whom who wants to come for final interview.
The Task Is To : Selling Comb To Buddist Monks In Temples
Only 3 Applicants willing to stay on for this Final Interview challenge. (Mr A , Mr B , Mr C)
The Chief Interviewer instructed: "Now I want three of you here to sell these wooden combs to the monks in the temples. You only have 10 days to do it and report to me after that."
After 10 days, they reported.
The Chief Interviewer asked Mr A:"How many have you sold?"
Mr A answered:"Only One."
The Chief Interviewer asked: "How did you manage to sell?
Mr A answered: "The monks in the temples scolded me when I show them the comb . But on my way back to downhill I met a young monk who bought it to scratch his head due to dandruff.
The Chief Interviewer then asked Mr B: "How many did you sell?
Mr B replied: "10 pieces. I went to a shrine and noticed many devotees's hair was in bad shape due to strong wind outside the shrine. The monk in there listened to my advice and bought 10 combs for their devotees in showing respect to the Buddha statue."
Then, The Chief Interviewer asked Mr C:"How about you?"
Mr C replied: "1,000 units."
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Pause to apply laterally thinking, answers scroll down....
The Chief Interviewer and the other 2 interviews were astounded.
The Chief Interviewer asked: "How you did that?"
Mr C replied: "I went to a famous temple. After observing for few days I discovered that there were many tourists. I then told the Chief Abbot there. "Sifu, those who come here are much devoted. If you could give them a gift,
it will be more elating to them. I told him that I have a bulk of combs here and ask him to raft his handwriting on the combs as a present to those visit here. He was very delighted and straight away ordered 1,000 pieces."
Moral of the story:
Think out of box
Wednesday, June 24, 2009
Yes mum, I'll fight monster
7%
Written By Regina Brett, 90 years old, of The Plain Dealer, Cleveland, Ohio :
"To celebrate growing older, I once wrote the 45 lessons life taught me"
1. Life isn't fair, but it's still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends and parents will. Stay in touch.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It's more healing than crying alone.
8. It's OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won't screw up the present.
12. It's OK to let your children see you cry..
13. Don't compare your life to others. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14. If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn't be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don't worry; God never blinks.
16. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
17. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
18.. Whatever doesn't kill you really does make you stronger.
19. It's never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don't take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don't save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don't wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness but you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words ''In five years, will this matter?".
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time, time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn't do.
35. Don't audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
36. Growing old beats the alternative -- dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood.
38. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else's, we'd grab ours back.
41. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
42. The best is yet to come.
43. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
44.. Yield.
45. Life isn't tied with a bow, but it's still a gift.
It's estimated 93% won't forward this. If you are one of the 7% who will, forward this with the title '7%'. I'm in the 7%. Remember that I will always share my spoon with you! Friends are the family that we choose for ourselves.







